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    允許自己選擇愛

    Author 馮以量
    Publisher 寶瓶文化 /寶瓶文化出版社
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    你明明渴望愛,為何盡是用恨在索求?

    .薩提爾模式家族治療。
    .馬來西亞家庭關懷及家族治療推手,完整重現家庭雕塑歷程。

    

    「以前我多麼想要快點離開這裡,現在它竟然屹立在這兒,等我回來療傷。原來我的家,也有充滿溫情的一面。為何當初我只看到恨與傷害?」──馮以量

    

    [把傷害還給過去,力量還給自己。]
    十歲時,父親遺下巨債,離家出走;十三歲時,父親回家了,不久卻癌末過世;十八歲時,母親也罹癌走了……年輕的以量連遭重創,三度自殺未遂。但隨著由求助者成為陪伴許多脆弱心靈成長的助人者,亦幫助他明白了:心裡那個無底的黑洞一直都會在,那是自己的一部分──然而,我們能為黑洞點亮光。
    在本書裡,他如實還原與協助對象的對話、互動歷程,引領我們不僅閱讀著這些真實蛻變,更深入諦聽自我內心。

    .男人說:「我從小就告訴自己,長大後不要像爸爸那樣不負責任。可是,我現在卻把自己的家弄得一敗塗地!」
    (其實,我們往往在複製與自己原生家庭之間的關係模式。)
    .母親說:「請你修理我的孩子!」
    (但孩子只是一面鏡子,反映了家庭互動的病態,並不是病態的本身。)

    

    [愛自己,為何要允許?]
    因為允許自己不再扮演受害者,寬容自己值得擁有愛,才能真正為自己負責,脫出桎梏,創造新生。生命裡的許多「為什麼」是沒有答案的,我們只能讓自己變得更好,把傷害還給過去,力量還給自己。
    不是明天。就是現在。

    本書特色:
    ◎你可曾想過:在你的生命裡,你的父母曾傳承了什麼給你?而你又打算傳承什麼給你的孩子?
    ◎過去沒學會的課題如今重現,就是要讓我們做出一個更好的選擇,以擺脫舊有思維帶來的痛苦。你可以選擇給你自己愛,為自己創造愛。
    ◎最揉入讀者心裡的是:馮以量不寫理論分析,而是如實還原與協助對象的「對話、互動」歷程。

    名人推薦:
    資深心理工作者重磅專文推薦(詳見本書內頁推薦序):
    ◎「我沒見過馮以量,但我毛遂自薦為他的書宣傳。以量的坦誠與開放,讓我揭開書頁即震撼。」──李崇建(心理導師)
    ◎「作者並不以專家自居,小心翼翼接住一顆顆受傷的心靈,溫柔引導他們找回陽光。我看到一顆溫柔的心。」──趙文滔(國立臺北教育大學心理與諮商學系教授、伴侶與家庭治療師)

    感動推薦:周志建(資深心理師、故事療癒作家)、許慧貞(臺北國際書展大獎入圍《最後抱他的人》作者)、彭菊仙(知名親子作家)、謝依婷(成大醫院精神部兒童青少年精神科主治醫師)

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    ──活著,就是離不開「生死」及「家庭」。我用這一生的心力在這兩大課題裡持續學習,至死不渝。

    .資深輔導與諮商工作者、醫療社工
    .馬來西亞生命線協會前副會長
    .2009年新加坡總統頒發「醫療仁心獎」
    .2011年《星洲日報》(馬來西亞最具影響力的中文媒體)讀者票選「最受歡迎作家」
    .2012年入圍馬來西亞十大傑出青年

    澳洲南澳大學社會科學(輔導)碩士。二十多年輔導領域與安寧療護實務經驗,輔導超過千對夫妻及青少年,陪伴超過千位臨終病人及喪親者,開設兩百餘場有關家庭關懷及臨終關懷深度學習工作坊,並進行過八百餘場演講(觀眾總計超過四十萬名)。
    授權及參與三十餘場改編自《善終》的戲劇公演、十餘場改編自《把愛帶回家》(台灣版《允許自己選擇愛》)的戲劇公演。二○一八年,舉辦馬來西亞的首次生死特展。
    曾任新加坡甘露關懷協會安寧志工督導、新加坡雅西西慈懷病院資深醫療社工、新加坡善友輔導中心輔導員兼訓練部主管。
    現為馬來西亞孝恩集團輔導與諮商顧問兼部門主管,並擔任馬來西亞已亮出版社執行長。
    著有《允許悲傷》、《最好的告別》、《已亮的天空》、《尋找光和愛》、《陪你到最後》。

    *書中主角們的基本資料已更改,作者只保留彼此的真實互動及對談。
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